See for instance the old Q&A. To summarize:
No difference for scalars.
For vectors:
(grad v)_ij = dv_i / dx_j
(nabla_grad v)_ij = dv_j / dx_i
For matrices:
(div v)_i = dv_ij / dx_j
(nabla_div v)_j = dv_ij / dx_i
See for instance the old Q&A. To summarize:
No difference for scalars.
For vectors:
(grad v)_ij = dv_i / dx_j
(nabla_grad v)_ij = dv_j / dx_i
For matrices:
(div v)_i = dv_ij / dx_j
(nabla_div v)_j = dv_ij / dx_i