Rule of thumb for quadrature degree

There are a few things to consider here:

  1. is your element type triangle/tetrahedra or quadrilateral/hexahedral
    1b) are the mesh cells affine?

If no on 1b the degree is usually alot higher than in the affine case.

Consider a general affine simplex with a test/trial function of order Q. Then a mass matrix has order 2Q, while a stiffness matrix has order 2*(Q+1).

  1. How does the PML functions look like? In general you can use
    How to obtain the Gauss quadrature degree estimated by the form compiler - #2 by dokken
    to check what the estimated degree of various forms are.

Without an example on a square or cube with the forms (ignoring the subdomains of pml, just using regular dx), it is hard to give further pointers.